Then there's Joe Budden, who pointed out on Twitter that today is the anniversary of the club shooting involving Puff Daddy, J. "I'm sure it’s pure coincidence today is the anniversary of the Puff/Shyne/JLo incident… He wasn't the only one to bring it up, either.On the hundred-something first dates I’ve had, I’ve been taken to Burger King, the car wash, and an NA meeting; I’ve left after five minutes, cried after six drinks, and engaged in many unladylike things. Sure, there are many smart, justifiable reasons to wait (STDs, comfort zones, intimacy issues, etc.), but simply put, I think we don’t want to fuck it up by fucking fast. (Or rather, in the name of journalistic integrity, not that I can remember.) I’m not sure why sexually liberated women like myself, and most of my friends — women who enjoy intercourse, who browse Coco de Mer, who talk about size and performance like weather and traffic — still live in this lame, antiquated fucking-on-the-first-date fear cave.
She has variously lamented that she doesn’t want Donald Trump “to be our prime minister”, got angry at algebra, and been forced to answer trivia about WW2 before her boyfriend would propose.Our first date was in Martha’s Vineyard, where he had invited me for the weekend. I wasn’t worried I went too far, too fast, because I never believed in that kind of thinking. I think I had a healthy approach to sexuality; I always looked at it as something that should be consensual and fun.Remember when Drake confessed his love for Rihanna at the VMAs (in a tuxedo, with that massive fucking grin) and then they maybe dated for a bit afterward and apparently got matching tattoos? Lo's residency in Las Vegas, and the pair posed for a cute selfie that got posted to both of their Instagram pages.And that’s the thing: If we’re sleeping with a man, we probably/hopefully like him, and we want to see him again.(Of course, sometimes we do it for the fun, the thrill, or sheer physical need, but that’s not what this is about.) Alas, even if it’s not our rule, and not our world, why risk ruining everything?